You can lead a horse to water...
Peter, one last try and then I'll keep my mouth shut.
First, what's so stressing about desoldering? Piece of cake if you have some solder wick and perhaps a solder sucker. About a 15 minute job and most of that is waiting for the iron to heat up.
Twisted pair shielded is really your best option - just sayin'. Buy some of that shield twisted pair recommended earlier - great stuff. Shielded twisted pair is likely to be smaller and easier to tuck than what you currently have. You only need to ground one end of the shield (actually that's best anyhow). You can run the ground for the shield to star ground point. Here's a picture:
Glad I got that off my chest - I'm starting to feel better.
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