Interesting thread, guys. I've never tried lapping a head - assumed it would require some precise milling kind of equipment, but this sounds like a kind of DIY project. I usually look at YT vids for "entertainment value" but is there a particular poster that does this process correctly?
I fear at YT there isn't anybody doing it the right way, even if i didn't check them all.
for sure, there is a guy who makes it in a way that, after "lapping", the head is good to be trashed!
I use to avoid spreading such stuff on public just to NOT encourage people to DIY... it needs a small mistake to ruin an otherwise salvageable head.
for example, this is a video where the guy shows how
NOT to lap a head!
he uses diamond lapping film but, most of all, he bends the guides (!!!) and, since he bent the guides, then he scrubs the head flat over a large area at the center of the lapping film sheet (do notice the very long grey traces on his lapping film) so that he makes the gaps area totally flat (!!!)...
this way, he removed a lot of metal just from where you should try to remove the least or none at all (from the gaps!).
Also, he didn't try to keep the original contour shape of the heads.
But, for sure, lapping like he does is a lot faster work... but the head is totally gone.
(the latest comments there in the video are of mine
)