I've been asking the same question as your initial post Lee all the years I was a Live Sound guy. Never got it, and after reading all the complicated responses, I know I never will.
I used to sit and stare at a cone for hours wondering 'how are you doing all of that at the same time?'
I guess some of us will never get it, but I thank the powers that be for letting me be one of the best sound guys this planet has ever heard, regardless....