I've put the LM4562's in a few things like preamps, etc. I'd say that I've found my new favorite in the LME49860's but the LM4562's are a close second. Both are very detailed, but if I were to draw a difference between the two I would say the 49860 is less "harsh" - still definitely "there", but not quite in your face/ears.
Get 'em both. Or get the 4562's and PM me ... I have 2 of the 49860's left over I can send your way, not a problem at all!